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maybe god wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person， we will know how to be grateful for that gift。
也许上天故意安排我们在遇到自己的白马王子之前先碰到几个有缘却无份的人；这样当你真正遇见自己生命中的唯一的时候，你才会充满感激之情去接受这份命运的恩赐。
when the door of happiness closes， another opens， but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don"t see the one which has been opened for us。
当一张通向幸福的门关闭的时候，另一张已悄悄地为你打开；但很多人都会久久地凝视那张已经关闭的幸福之门，而对新打开的视而不见。
the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with， never say a word， and then walk away feeling like it was the best co女ersation you"ve ever had。
真正知心的朋友是这样的朋友：你坐在生命的回廊上，看着他经过，向他友好地挥一挥手；在你离开的时候，你会感受到这种沟通的美妙胜过任何一种语言。
it"s true that we don"t know what we"ve got until we lose it， but it"s also true that we don"t know what we"ve been missing until it arrives。
生活中的遗憾往往是：失去之后我们才懂得什么是曾经拥有；当我们到达一个新的人生驿站之后，才知道路途上错过了什么。
giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they"ll love you back！ don"t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn"t， be content it grew in yours。 it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone， an hour to like someone， and a day to love someone， but it takes a lifetime to forget someone。
当你爱一个人的时候，不要去期望他也会同样地爱你，真爱不能期待回报！慢慢的等待你的爱在他的心中成长、壮大，即使不会，那份爱也已经在你的心目中滋生了一片绿洲。憎恨一个人只需要一分钟；喜欢上一个人需要一小时；爱上一个人需要一天；而忘记一个人，将会耗费你的一生。
don"t go for looks; they can deceive。 don"t go for wealth; even that fades away。 go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright。 find the one that makes your heart smile。
不要去追寻花色，它们终会凋谢；不要沉迷于追逐金钱，那始终是身外之物。走向那个能让你发出由衷的微笑的人，因为那微笑能照亮你生命中的漫漫黑夜。人的一生中最值得寻找的就是那个能让你的心真正微笑起来的人。
there are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real！
任何人的生命中都会有那么一个人，当他已经成为你的梦萦魂绕的时候，你会希冀他真实的拥抱！
dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be， because
you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do。
做你想做的梦；去你想去的地方；成为你想成为的人：因为你只有一次生命，生命也只会给你一次机会让你圆满你美丽的梦。
may you have enough happiness to make you sweet， enough trials to make you strong， enough sorrow to keep you human， enough hope to make you happy。
用甜蜜的心去感受你的幸福；用坚强的心去面对你的失败；用幽默的态度去接受生命中的痛苦；用强大的信心去编织自己的快乐。
（用幸福去滋养你甜蜜的心；用挫折去打造你坚强的心；用悲伤去孕育你慈爱的心；用希望去培植你幸福的心。）
always put yourself in others" shoes。 if you feel that it hurts you， it probably hurts the other person， too。
学会设身处地地为他人着想：当你为什么受伤的时候，别人的心也会为它而哭泣。
the happiest of people don"t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way。
人生最快乐的事情并不是你能得到世间最好的一切，而是随遇而安地接受命运所给予你的所有。
happiness lies for those who cry， those who hurt， those who have searched， and those who have tried， for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives。 love begins with a smile， grows with a kiss and ends with a tear。 the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past， you can"t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches。
最快乐的人是那些懂得充分利用他们所能掌握的一切，去享受生活的人。哭过、痛过、追求过、尝试过，仍然对生命充满感激的人，才是真正体会到了快乐的人。爱从一个从微笑开始，在热吻中得以延伸，却随眼泪逝去。营造幸福的未来必须首先忘记过去的苦难。抛弃已经过去的伤痛和失败才能让你在人生的路上走得更加轻松。
when you were born， you were crying and everyone a肉nd you was smiling。 live your life so that when you die， you"re the one who is smiling and everyone a肉nd you is crying。
这样度过你的一生：出生时你带着啼哭，而所有簇拥你的人都在微笑；死亡时你带着微笑，所有簇拥你的人却在哭泣。
2002/7/5
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朋友提高原文及译文初稿
穿裤子的云校改定稿
maybe god wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person， we will know how to be grateful for that gift。
也许上天故意安排我们在遇到自己的白马王子之前先碰到几个有缘却无份的人；这样当你真正遇见自己生命中的唯一的时候，你才会充满感激之情去接受这份命运的恩赐。
when the door of happiness closes， another opens， but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don"t see the one which has been opened for us。
当一张通向幸福的门关闭的时候，另一张已悄悄地为你打开；但很多人都会久久地凝视那张已经关闭的幸福之门，而对新打开的视而不见。
the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with， never say a word， and then walk away feeling like it was the best co女ersation you"ve ever had。
真正知心的朋友是这样的朋友：你坐在生命的回廊上，看着他经过，向他友好地挥一挥手；在你离开的时候，你会感受到这种沟通的美妙胜过任何一种语言。
it"s true that we don"t know what we"ve got until we lose it， but it"s also true that we don"t know what we"ve been missing until it arrives。
生活中的遗憾往往是：失去之后我们才懂得什么是曾经拥有；当我们到达一个新的人生驿站之后，才知道路途上错过了什么。
giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they"ll love you back！ don"t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn"t， be content it grew in yours。 it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone， an hour to like someone， and a day to love someone， but it takes a lifetime to forget someone。
当你爱一个人的时候，不要去期望他也会同样地爱你，真爱不能期待回报！慢慢的等待你的爱在他的心中成长、壮大，即使不会，那份爱也已经在你的心目中滋生了一片绿洲。憎恨一个人只需要一分钟；喜欢上一个人需要一小时；爱上一个人需要一天；而忘记一个人，将会耗费你的一生。
don"t go for looks; they can deceive。 don"t go for wealth; even that fades away。 go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright。 find the one that makes your heart smile。
不要去追寻花色，它们终会凋谢；不要沉迷于追逐金钱，那始终是身外之物。走向那个能让你发出由衷的微笑的人，因为那微笑能照亮你生命中的漫漫黑夜。人的一生中最值得寻找的就是那个能让你的心真正微笑起来的人。
there are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real！
任何人的生命中都会有那么一个人，当他已经成为你的梦萦魂绕的时候，你会希冀他真实的拥抱！
dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be， because
you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do。
做你想做的梦；去你想去的地方；成为你想成为的人：因为你只有一次生命，生命也只会给你一次机会让你圆满你美丽的梦。
may you have enough happiness to make you sweet， enough trials to make you strong， enough sorrow to keep you human， enough hope to make you happy。
用甜蜜的心去感受你的幸福；用坚强的心去面对你的失败；用幽默的态度去接受生命中的痛苦；用强大的信心去编织自己的快乐。
（用幸福去滋养你甜蜜的心；用挫折去打造你坚强的心；用悲伤去孕育你慈爱的心；用希望去培植你幸福的心。）
always put yourself in others" shoes。 if you feel that it hurts you， it probably hurts the other person， too。
学会设身处地地为他人着想：当你为什么受伤的时候，别人的心也会为它而哭泣。
the happiest of people don"t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way。
人生最快乐的事情并不是你能得到世间最好的一切，而是随遇而安地接受命运所给予你的所有。
happiness lies for those who cry， those who hurt， those who have searched， and those who have tried， for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives。 love begins with a smile， grows with a kiss and ends with a tear。 the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past， you can"t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches。
最快乐的人是那些懂得充分利用他们所能掌握的一切，去享受生活的人。哭过、痛过、追求过、尝试过，仍然对生命充满感激的人，才是真正体会到了快乐的人。爱从一个从微笑开始，在热吻中得以延伸，却随眼泪逝去。营造幸福的未来必须首先忘记过去的苦难。抛弃已经过去的伤痛和失败才能让你在人生的路上走得更加轻松。
when you were born， you were crying and everyone a肉nd you was smiling。 live your life so that when you die， you"re the one who is smiling and everyone a肉nd you is crying。
这样度过你的一生：出生时你带着啼哭，而所有簇拥你的人都在微笑；死亡时你带着微笑，所有簇拥你的人却在哭泣。
2002/7/5
－－
朋友提高原文及译文初稿
穿裤子的云校改定稿